Cleansing breathing exercise: Less than 5 minutes

Meditation has been one of the hardest self care practices to incorporate into my life thus far. I’ve tried multiple times over many years coming from many different places in my evolution to incorporate meditation into my existence and for the most part found myself feeling frustrated, failed, and wondering if my brain was just irrevocably switched to “OMFG OBSESS OBSESS AMIDOINGTHISRIGHT? OBSESS OBSESS” mode.

One of the first forms of meditation I tried that actually gave me the results I was looking for – calmness, clarity, easing of anxiety – was Prana, an incredibly simple breathing exercise I learned while in massage school at Brian Utting.

Since then, I’ve favored breathing meditations as mind calming introductions to my clients. Here is one of my favorites.

Read these instructions completely before starting.

Disclaimer yadda yadda: The following is offered freely as felt-sense education. It is not therapy and does not replace medical diagnosis or treatment. Please use your discretion in participating in this exploration as you do so at your own risk. If it hurts, stop. If you are currently suffering from chronic pain or acute injury, attempt these instructions only under direct medical supervision.

Cleansing breath exercise

Close your eyes.

Take 15-30 seconds or so to do a quick scan of your body. Does anything hurt? Is your jaw tight? Do you have a knot in your stomach? Is your chest constricted? Are your shoulders tight? Is your brow furrowed? Observe these things, and take note of them. This information is what we will refer to as your baseline.

Inhale as slowly and as deeply as seems feasible.

Though it may be, don’t concern yourself with whether the breath is shaky, or if your air capacity is not as big as you’d like it to be. Just breathe, and be aware of the sensation of your breathing.

Can you feel the cool air rushing in at the base of your nostrils? Do you notice the expansion and contraction of your belly? The expansion of your ribs? Are they expanding up into your throat, or out to the back of your chair, or forward from your sternum, or a combination of these?

Maintaining this same experiential attentiveness, exhale, slowly and completely, at a rate which makes your exhale breath about twice as long as your inhale.

Repeat this breathing technique for about 20 breaths, or as long as it takes you to comfortably reach your timing goal, whichever comes first. Try your best to continue observing your breathing and how it feels. If your mind wanders, and it probably will, simply bring yourself back to the exercise once you’ve noticed. Note any changes in the lengths of your breathings – are they getting longer?

Now, scan yourself again, and note your new baseline. What has changed? Take a few normal breaths. What has changed?

Congratulations. You’ve just meditated, and come back to your senses. How’s it feel?

Let me know if you want more.

Take care of you,

Notes: If you need to, you can count as you breathe. A nice rate is a 4 second inhale, and a 7 or 8 second exhale. If you’re faster than that, 4/8 is your new goal (counting faster to reach it is cheating, FYI :P). If you’re slower than that, GREAT.

Once cleansing breaths are automatic to you and you no longer need to count or focus your mind on keeping track of your longer exhale, try saying to yourself in a calm and gentle voice “I am breathing in” when you inhale, and “I am breathing out” when you exhale.

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